My name is Julian Hayes II. After five years of being a prisoner to my macros, ‘eating clean’, & missing out on valuable experiences & relationships, I’ve come to the fitness world with only one goal—to save other fitness enthusiasts from food guilt and other fitness problems. But to do so, I can’t be the guy I once was. I must be someone else. I must be something else.
As you can see, I’m quite the fanboy of the hit show ‘Arrow'. The beginning monologue shoots my nerd meter through the roof.
Arrow displays amazing action pieces, great dialogue, cool weaponry, and valuable fitness lessons.
Oliver Queen deals with stress in his every day life just as you and I do. He has family drama, villains, and a city to look over. We have work projects, cookies, and finding time to workout to look over. Juggling crime fighting with a personal life is just as tough as finding balance between our daily and fitness lives.
Let’s look at nine lessons in fitness learned from Oliver Queen becoming the Arrow.
Lesson #1- The old you must die in order to become someone greater
Just as a phoenix rises from the ashes and experiences a rebirth—you must rise to a stronger self. A symbolic ‘death’ of the old you is necessary for a emergence of the new self.
Before the island, Oliver’s life was nightclubs, creeping around with women and luxury. After the boat incident and daddy’s confessions—Oliver’s silver spoon lifestyle vanishes. To survive the island, Oliver evolves into a stronger version of himself.
Remove attachments to old beliefs and dogmas. Reflect, be objective, and realize a new pathway has opened.
Lesson #2- Your lowest moments are opportunities for your brightest moments
From the psychological torture of the island to Slade Wilson playing mindgames—Oliver has dealt with a plethora of low moments.
During those low moments, Oliver experienced major breakthroughs enabling him to save Starling City and grow as a person. Unfortunately, suffering and setbacks often serve as our best lessons. These low and dark moments can be blessings in disguise.
After these lessons, we gain clarity and drop the excess in our lives, which doesn’t serve our mission.
In the past, maybe you tried to lose 15lbs, but fell short. Take a moment and reflect on what went wrong with your past approach. Was it habits, mindset, friends, or even a fear of success or failure?
Lesson #3- You’re capable of more than you can ever imagine
Whether you’re trapped on an island or want to transform your body—all the strength you need for success is already inside of you.
It’s up to you to unleash it onto the world—by taking action (one step at a time). You’re good enough, you just need to believe it.
There will be temptations, challenges from all courses of life and you’ll feel like giving up at times. But, that’s expected.
If you can look at yourself in the mirror and feel you made progress (baby steps count), then you have nothing to worry about.
Lesson #4- Know what you’re fighting for
Oliver didn’t turn into The Arrow to just beat everyday people up and shoot arrows at strangers.
At first, it was fulfilling his father’s dying wish and eliminating names from his list of poisonous city figures. Later, his purpose became about honoring Tommys’ (his best friend) memory.
You might want a six pack, bulging biceps, a set of shoulders that would make Achilles jealous, sculpted legs, or head turning glutes. But, I challenge you to look deeper than superficial metrics.
Dig deeper into yourself and think about what leveling up your fitness will bring to your everyday life. Think about the confidence that will arrive allowing you to chase goals you’ve wanted. Think about how taking control of your health can alter your family tree of bad health issues.
No matter the goal, decide what your purpose is before entering the field.
Lesson #5- Decide on your weapon of choice and master it
Every hero has a signature weapon. For Oliver, it’s the bow & arrow. For you, it’s going to be your diet and working out.
Will your dietary weapon be intermittent fasting, carb backloading, or traditional breakfast with portioned meals just to name a few options?
Will your training weapon be full body splits. Upper/lower splits, or body part splits?
Choose your weapons based on personality, lifestyle, and personal interests. No matter the weapon, you must commit to honing your craft by practicing and paying attention to your daily habits.
Lesson #6- Your past doesn’t define you
This isn’t ‘Back to the Future’ nor is Kitty Pryde hanging around to take you back to the past. Your past is permanent and there’s no changing it. Focusing on the past makes you anxious, full of regret, and not focused on the present—which you can control.
Just as Oliver letting go of past events to become The Arrow was necessary, you must let go of any negative failures in the past to succeed.
Maybe you’ve dealt with food guilt, body image issues, or confidence issues. Maybe that last 12 week program you’ve tried didn’t turn out as anticipated. Maybe issues of weight have troubled you throughout your entire adulthood.
Just because you fell short or were a couch potato doesn’t mean you can’t become something else in the near future.
Lesson #7- Be intentional with your goals
From street crime to corporate crime to Mirakuru induced maniacs (Slade Wilson)—Starling City is nuts. If Oliver tried to take on all these issues, he wouldn’t solve anything. It’s tough enough to succeed in one mission, yet along trying to solve all the world’s problems.
It’s impossible to conquer everything at once. Possessing this mindset leaves you empty handed and majoring in mediocrity.
Ambition is awesome, but choose your battles wisely. Don’t stretch yourself too thin. Go after the goals with the highest yield in return. Oliver taking down the big shots essentially destroys the low-level crime (hence high yielding returns).
Focus on food choices, not meal timing nor the optimal post-workout window feeding time (hence a high yielding return)
Develop laser like focus and conquer one mission (i.e. fitness goal) at a time.
Lesson #8- You will encounter setbacks
From Malcolm Merlyn to Slade Wilson to Ra's Al Ghul , Oliver has received his fair share of beatdowns. He hasn’t always made the correct decision nor executed plans with precision.
He’s not perfect. I’m not perfect. You’re not perfect.
No one is immune to setbacks. Setbacks will happen along your fitness journey. You might fall into a temporary funk and lose your mojo.
Life happens. Keep it moving.
If you’re challenging yourself to grow as an individual, you’re going to hit some bumpy roads. This doesn’t mean you’re a failure or aren’t capable.
Goals need to be challenging. Anything worthwhile in life takes effort and time. Fitness transformations are tough and require consistency (sorry to burst the bubbles of the 30-day get shred crowds).
The better you embrace setbacks, the more at peace you’ll be when they happen, thus enabling you to bounce back quicker.
Lesson #9- You can’t succeed alone
Of all the lessons, this is the most important. There comes a stopping point in every ones journey where growth plateaus. Without seeking reinforcements, you can't move forward.
Without friends providing accountability and support, I would've waved the white flag by now .
Oliver couldn’t be the hero he is without Diggle and Felicity providing a shoulder to lean on.
Your shoulders will only carry so much weight until they tip you over. When you start to drift into ‘hero mode’ and think you don't need anyone, keep Bill Withers in mind. ( ‘We all need somebody to lean on’)
When it comes to fitness…
● Whom do you lean on for support?
● Who keeps you accountable?
Question for you to think about: Which of these lessons is lacking the most in your life at the moment? What are you going to do to change the situation?